Misunderstanding of parents about my work. How to explain?

Question

Career in IT

Good afternoon!
I left college, I work not in my specialty (since there is no portfolio), but now I have found my first order and there is another one in the future. Since I work in shifts, I burn out. I want to continue studying PL, but I simply don’t have the strength after you arrive and still screw up.
How do I explain to my parents that I just need a start?

Answer 1

A more or less worthy proof for parents is when you switch to self-sufficiency and stop being dependent.
Ideally - a rented apartment and independent subsistence /.
Usually it is at this moment that it turns out that adults are not so stupid, because many everyday problems pounce on you, taking away time, strength and health. Lived off schedule, starving - get a bunch of sores, at best a cold, at worst - a bunch of chronic ones. There will be no time to work here.
Until then, just try not to fight. In the vast majority of cases, what your parents have done for you is much more than what you will do for them. This does not change the fact that in some ways you may not have the same opinion.

Answer 2

Why bother telling your parents? You are an adult and decide for yourself.
And why come from somewhere

Answer 3

No way.
Change your job to an easier one, otherwise you won’t wait for your start.
Ideally, a place where only your presence is needed from you (library, private security company), and you can spend time on self-development.
In general, you had to gain experience during college in order to go as a junior in some kind of seedy office and already receive money for the experience you received. And now super efforts are needed from you - to ensure your independence in an incomprehensible job, while leaving time and energy for development. Otherwise, no way now.