What can be done to find that “balance”?

Question

Career in IT

At the moment I am studying in the 10th grade of an educational institution: called "School".
It's just that for a year I have found myself in a wonderful occupation as programming and Front-End in general. I like what I do, I devote almost all my free time to it, I like solving problems, learning something new, looking at my progress.

I only teach mathematics at home by myself, out of personal interest. I go to school because of the principle - "necessary". Don't tell your ancestors, you need this, you need that. And the catchphrase - “I understand absolutely nothing in your work, but you will never be hired anywhere if you don’t get a tower, and in general you will be a homeless person” and you are sitting like that, thinking what to do. How do I develop further, I want to get a diploma just for the sake of immigration, but how ... how to find that very balance, I like to study everything at home, but I only study at home, but because I live outside the city, there is an environment and the school is extremely bad. Teachers who would have to yell at the floor of the lesson how bad everyone is and tell their problems. And I just don’t know how I can even start studying at home and working at the same time.

My stack now is HTML(Semantic, BEM, Flex+Grid), CSS (Scss, less), Pug, Webpack, Gulp, Git + GitHub, JavaScript, TypeScript, OOP, React Base (I practiced everything, and generally I learn in practice.

English fluent spoken.

Answer 1

1. It is better to have a tower than not to have.
   
2. In 99.99% of cases, the tower is not needed for work.
   
3. The tower makes it easier to find your first job.
   
4. The tower is not needed for emigration.
   

Complete your studies at school, enter a university, after the first semester, start looking for a summer internship, try to get a job at a university computer center or department, negotiate a course from the 4th to free attendance and full-time employment. Devote your free time not to mathematics, but to the study of applied knowledge and practice.

Answer 2

Well what can I say, I come to sit

The answer is obvious - do not come. I would recommend looking at it as "I'm coming to hang out with my friends".

I only study math

Very bad. You need to learn everything and as much as possible, including philosophy, the Russian language (in order to write on forums without errors) and other similar nonsense.

and in general you will be a bum

It's true. This world works according to quite specific and simple laws. If you keep them, then you bathe in money, etc.; if not - homeless / live in the village / live elsewhere / sit in jail.

Teachers who would have to yell at half the lesson how bad everyone is and tell their problems.

If you really care about them, you can make a video and sue for moral corruption and oppression.

diploma just for the sake of immigration

What is the problem? Buy a diploma and immigrate. Even better, first check with the embassy about the immigration rules, and then follow them. For example, you can go to Poland to study for free and then get their citizenship.

how to find that balance

Balance of what?

And I just don’t know how to start studying at home and working at the same time.

It's simple: go through an interview and get a job. To pass an interview, you need to learn something (it is written in the vacancy). Then, as the work progresses, the training will go by itself.

Answer 3

The easiest way to immigrate is a master's degree or a second higher German university (there is free education, and you can officially work 20 hours a week so as not to starve). What do you need? Graduate from high school and obtain a bachelor's degree in IT from an EU-recognized university. And a very good level of English and preferably German, as Russian is rarely spoken abroad.
Good grades, especially in subjects like biology, are not important in and of themselves, but they greatly increase the chances of getting into a university whose diploma is recognized in the EU.
As for the balance, I advise you not to bother, at this age, I remember, I could spend several nights in a row programming, then a family, children, and so on will appear ...

Answer 4

"And I just don't know how to start studying at home and working at the same time."
There is an extramural form of education and a family one. But here you first need to talk with your parents and think it over carefully before moving in this direction.
If you need details, then write, I'll tell you.

Answer 5

Finishing school is a MUST. Just like subjects teach everything, this is a general development, including the brain.
Further, either to a university or to the army / buy a military man.
If possible (financially, if it works out with work), move out to live separately, after 18 ...

Answer 6

Transfer to a school and a class with a bias in programming, since there is a choice now