How to configure rdp correctly?

Question

linux

There is a server under debian 10. It costs mate and lxqt. If I do not go through rdp, then there is a choice of which shell to load. And if I go through rdp, then there is no choice and only lxqt is loaded. How to set up mate to be loaded via rdp or to have a shell choice?

Answer 1

What shell is loaded by default? In my opinion, you need to dig in this direction

Answer 2

The choice of DE/WM is configured in the
~/.Xclients file
, of course, in the home directory of the user who logs in.
for example, we prescribe
plasmashell there
to start KDE