What software should I use on the debian server for my tasks?

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Debian

Hello.
There is a VPS server on debian 9 and I want the following features from it:
1. LAMP server for hosting educational projects (I really want to master HTML5, CSS3, JS, and other delights for learning Front-end development) I would like some kind of control panel virtual hosts (webmin, virtualmin, vesta cp)
2. Collect all devices in one network . (there is an android mobile phone, a laptop, a home PC, a debian server to work with backups, etc.) network.
3. Development on node.js is also interesting, I would like to have some kind of control panel for this. See which applications are hung, which ones work fine, start and stop them accordingly.
Firstly, the question is whether it is possible to implement it.
Secondly, I roughly understand where to google for some items, but I can’t figure it out, for example, with the control panel and node.js due to a complete lack of experience.
If someone implemented similar and is ready to share experience I will be very glad!
Thanks in advance to all who responded.

Answer 1

No panels are needed, nginx and node.js are enough for the frontend.
To manage node applications - pm2.
To combine into one network, in addition to openvpn, you can see servers for L2TP / IPSec.

Answer 2

LAMP server for hosting educational projects

What is the problem? L you already have :) it remains to install A(pache), M(ysql) and P(HP). Everything is installed natively, in packages. Webmin is a server control panel in general, but I highly recommend not to deal with any panels at all, but to figure out how it works.
In Linux, there is no concept of "regular function". Openvpn is a "standard feature" because it is installed by the regular package manager. And strongswan is a standard feature. And racoon - also probably full-time :)