What is the best thing to do at the moment?

Question

Career in IT

(Remarochka: I am from the West of Ukraine, I taught Russian - just talking myself, there may be small mistakes)


Greetings to all, Lord) I am sitting in the following situation
. I have two camps: My parents say that, to put it mildly, according to them, "an incompetent person knows"
Although at the age of 16 I was able to make money on the front end myself for a new 2020 Macbook, but as I understand it, this does not bypass them at all.
Their claim is that apart from mathematics and English, I don’t study anything else, and I’m sitting in my computer “writing some websites” Our
school is fucking bad, so I study everything at home and come just to take a test or something like that.
All day long I either write something for myself, or do something freelance, in my free time I read literature on programming, algorithms, and so on. Why? Interesting, I like to study it, and I enjoy it.

From the pre-story to the core of the question: Which is better? At the age of 17-18, go to work and get a part-time job, or stay freelancing like that.
And at least somehow explain to parents that these are not just sites, heh.

Thanks everyone for the feedback!

Answer 1

It's pretty easy to explain. Give finance.
Think about education. Better of course zaochka and work in an outsourcing company. In 3-4 years, raise your level to the middle.
As a result, in 3-4 years you will have
* work experience and confirmed projects
* a diploma
* a pillow for money
* some connections with classmates
* perhaps you will have student exchange programs at the institute

Answer 2

I was able to make money on my front end for a new macbook 2020

- this is good, it's better than nothing, but try to earn money for renting an apartment, paying for a communal apartment, for food, for household chemicals, and then save up for a new macbook - then, I guarantee you, your parents will treat you with great respect.

Their claim...

- whoever pays for what is listed in the previous paragraph is entitled to any claims.

And at least somehow explain to parents that these are not just sites, heh.

- You are 16 years old, you do not have to explain anything to anyone. It is enough just to spit out mother's titya.

Answer 3

You don't need to explain anything to anyone. Get ready to enter the tough and ruthless world of adults :) Freelance and freelancing is better than just freelancing :) Freelancing and stable work is better than freelancing and freelancing.
Your parents are obliged to support you exactly until the moment of your eighteenth birthday - and then, as you agree, then their duties from the point of view of legislation are over, by this moment it would be great for you to provide for yourself :) Yulia Bedrosova
said quite rightly - when you yourself can pay for the rent of the hut , food and everything else you need in order to live alone (and if not already alone, this is generally a plus stop) - then your parents will respect you.

Answer 4

go for a point and understand that if the goal is a 2020 macbook, then everything is bad.
Well, it’s also possible for a zaochku - just it’s not clear whether or not you will pull the job.
In general, it is impossible to answer this question - everything depends on you, and I would not trust my life to some guys from the Internet

Answer 5

I work as an HR at Yota. Definitely, you need to go to school and get relevant experience at a permanent job or internship in a product company. If now you were 18-20 years old, you have a middle + level of knowledge, experience in companies, and not freelancing, you cost 180-200 k in your hands.

Answer 6

Bro, drop these books and websites and think about starting a career as a steelworker - you can already prepare docks at the polytechnic, I'll put in a good word for you.
And your dad is great!