Gradle runs a bunch of daemons. How to win?

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gradle

there was such a problem. I use gradle + IntelliJ IDEA. (in android studio the problem is the same). When you create a project or open it, there is a constant connection to gradle and a running instance of the daemon, until the memory on the PC runs out and Ide closes.
System: Linux Mint 18.2 Sonya RAM 8G Swap 8G java version "1.8.0_181" gradle version 4.4
A bunch of processes appear like:

/usr/lib/jvm/java-8-oracle/bin/java -Xmx1024m -Dfile.encoding=UTF-8 -Duser.country=RU -Duser.language=ru -Duser.variant -cp /home/$username$ /.gradle/wrapper/dists/gradle-4.4-all/9br9xq1tocpiv8o6njlyu5op1/gradle-4.4/lib/gradle-launcher-4.4.jar org.gradle.launcher.daemon.bootstrap.GradleDaemon 4.4

Each of the processes writes a log to /home/$username$/.gradle/daemon/4.4/ like this:

2:48:01.245 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.bootstrap.DaemonMain] Assuming the daemon was started with following jvm opts: [-Xmx1024m, -Dfile.encoding=UTF-8, -Duser.country=RU, -Duser.language=ru, -Duser.variant]
12:48:01.385 [INFO] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.Daemon] start() called on daemon - DefaultDaemonContext[uid=27e6f9ad-20a8-47fe-9a6d-c5f4c76cd7db,javaHome=/usr/lib/jvm/java-8-oracle,daemonRegistryDir=/home/$username$/.gradle/daemon,pid=31965,idleTimeout=10800000,daemonOpts=-Xmx1024m,-Dfile.encoding=UTF-8,-Duser.country=RU,-Duser.language=ru,-Duser.variant]
12:48:01.415 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding IP addresses for network interface tun0
12:48:01.415 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a loopback interface? false
12:48:01.416 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a multicast interface? true
12:48:01.416 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote address /fe80:0:0:0:1143:1d77:8f24:73a1%tun0
12:48:01.417 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote multicast interface tun0
12:48:01.418 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding IP addresses for network interface enp4s0
12:48:01.418 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a loopback interface? false
12:48:01.418 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a multicast interface? true
12:48:01.419 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote address /fe80:0:0:0:8fc7:6f05:8275:c808%enp4s0
12:48:01.419 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote address /10.81.0.206
12:48:01.420 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote multicast interface enp4s0
12:48:01.420 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding IP addresses for network interface enp3s1
12:48:01.421 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a loopback interface? false
12:48:01.421 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a multicast interface? true
12:48:01.422 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote address /fe80:0:0:0:6b7f:6b12:8d1c:6b7d%enp3s1
12:48:01.422 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote address /192.168.56.15
12:48:01.423 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding remote multicast interface enp3s1
12:48:01.423 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding IP addresses for network interface lo
12:48:01.423 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a loopback interface? true
12:48:01.424 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Is this a multicast interface? false
12:48:01.424 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding loopback address /0:0:0:0:0:0:0:1%lo
12:48:01.426 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.InetAddresses] Adding loopback address /127.0.0.1
12:48:01.430 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.TcpIncomingConnector] Listening on [dd425ab1-64e6-4278-bf1e-2ddda7f19e3a port:41893, addresses:[/0:0:0:0:0:0:0:1%lo, /127.0.0.1]].
12:48:01.435 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.Daemon] Daemon starting at: Wed Aug 29 12:48:01 SAMT 2018, with address: [dd425ab1-64e6-4278-bf1e-2ddda7f19e3a port:41893, addresses:[/0:0:0:0:0:0:0:1%lo, /127.0.0.1]]
12:48:01.436 [INFO] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.DaemonRegistryUpdater] Advertising the daemon address to the clients: [dd425ab1-64e6-4278-bf1e-2ddda7f19e3a port:41893, addresses:[/0:0:0:0:0:0:0:1%lo, /127.0.0.1]]
12:48:01.437 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.DaemonRegistryUpdater] Advertised daemon context: DefaultDaemonContext[uid=27e6f9ad-20a8-47fe-9a6d-c5f4c76cd7db,javaHome=/usr/lib/jvm/java-8-oracle,daemonRegistryDir=/home/spawn/.gradle/daemon,pid=31965,idleTimeout=10800000,daemonOpts=-Xmx1024m,-Dfile.encoding=UTF-8,-Duser.country=RU,-Duser.language=ru,-Duser.variant]
12:48:01.438 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.registry.PersistentDaemonRegistry] Storing daemon address: [dd425ab1-64e6-4278-bf1e-2ddda7f19e3a port:41893, addresses:[/0:0:0:0:0:0:0:1%lo, /127.0.0.1]], context: DefaultDaemonContext[uid=27e6f9ad-20a8-47fe-9a6d-c5f4c76cd7db,javaHome=/usr/lib/jvm/java-8-oracle,daemonRegistryDir=/home/spawn/.gradle/daemon,pid=31965,idleTimeout=10800000,daemonOpts=-Xmx1024m,-Dfile.encoding=UTF-8,-Duser.country=RU,-Duser.language=ru,-Duser.variant]
12:48:01.448 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.cache.internal.DefaultFileLockManager] Waiting to acquire exclusive lock on daemon addresses registry.
12:48:01.451 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.cache.internal.DefaultFileLockManager] Lock acquired on daemon addresses registry.
12:48:01.471 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.cache.internal.DefaultFileLockManager] Releasing lock on daemon addresses registry.
12:48:01.472 [LIFECYCLE] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.Daemon] Daemon server started.
12:48:01.474 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.bootstrap.DaemonStartupCommunication] Completed writing the daemon greeting. Closing streams...
12:48:01.481 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.Daemon] stopOnExpiration() called on daemon
12:48:01.483 [ERROR] [org.gradle.internal.remote.internal.inet.TcpIncomingConnector] Cannot accept connection from remote address /192.168.56.15.
12:48:01.484 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.Daemon] awaitExpiration() called on daemon
12:48:01.490 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.DaemonStateCoordinator] daemon is running. Sleeping until state changes.
12:48:11.483 [DEBUG] [org.gradle.launcher.daemon.server.Daemon] DaemonExpirationPeriodicCheck running

and so on endlessly. Starting Gradle daemon Connecting Gradle daemon and also infinite. Where to drop tell me? in Ide I see gradle connecting to daemon, gradle starting daemon