Why the sketch is not uploaded to the Arduino Pro Mini 5V. sixteen?

Question

Atmel AVR

The blink sketch is not uploaded to the Arduino Pro Mini 5V. 16.
If you upload the sketch via AVR mkII to AVR Studio 5 (directly hex), then the board works.
And through 2 different usb-uart, no.
One of them is on an FTDI chip (with a reset contact)
. The second is simpler. (No reset)
Shorting RX TX on both returns the signal.
On Windows 7 x64 via Arduino IDE
I get stk500_getsync(): not in sync: resp=0×00
On Debian I get from the console (not sure if the command is correct)
In response to
avrdude -p m328p -P /dev/ttyUSB0 -c stk500v1 - b 57600 -C /etc/avrdude.conf -U flash:w:/srv/ftp/test.cpp.hex
get
avrdude: stk500_recv(): programmer is not responding
/dev/ttyUSB0 taken from lsusb output.
I tried to change RX TX places when connected.
I tried to change the bootloader through AVR Studio 5. (The bootloader is not sewn through the Arduino IDE)
I tried different versions of the Arduino environments.
Tried optiboot bootloader.
Everything is in vain. (fee from ebay)

Answer 1

It is necessary at the time of the start of the firmware to have time to press the reset button.