Is it possible with pyTelegramBotAPI?

Question

Bots

When a bot replies to a message in a group or supergroup, it selects "reply", for all users.

bot.send_message(message.chat.id, 'Назовите клан:', reply_to_message_id=message.message_id,
                                 reply_markup=types.ForceReply(selective=False))

Is it possible for the bot to "choose" reply only for the user it is replying to?
Same with Markup buttons

bot.send_message(message.chat.id, 'В какой клан хотите вступить?', reply_to_message_id=message.message_id,
                             reply_markup=markup_menu_1)

Second.

How to make the bot process messages to which it was answered (reply) in a group or supergroup, and temporarily ignore those that are not a response to its message (until a reply arrives)?