How to write a UDP server for VPS: Java vs Node.js?

Question

Java

There is a VPS 1024mb, 2 cores at 2GHz. I don't know how to write a UDP server. The choice fell on Java or Node.js. The received message stream will come from C# (Unity, UDP) at about 50-100 messages per second (in spikes), "message" ~ 200 bytes.
What is better to cope with such a load and such not very outstanding resources? Of course, I would like to get a more productive server :)

Answer 1

No difference. Choose what you know best and feel more comfortable with.

Answer 2

Why not Golang? If from Java and JS on this hardware, then for me it's JS.

Answer 3

> the flow of messages will go from C#
If there is expertise in C#, then you can use it.

Answer 4

50-100 thousand or just 50-100 messages?