How to update value in array of mongoDB object?

Question

MongoDB

Hello. Help with a question on monga.
From the node I make a request to update the data, but I get a strange situation.
We have such an object.

_id: 61c4f31d0c7a0a29c238d5c8
firstName:  "NAME",
middleName:  "",
lastName:  "",
phoneNumbers:
    [
       {phoneNumber: "111111", phoneStatus:  false, defaultPhone: true, _id: 61c4f31d0c7a0a29c238d5c9},
       {phoneNumber: "2222", phoneStatus:  false, defaultPhone: true, _id: 61c4f31d0c7a0a29cdff4d5c9},
    ],
avaSrc: ""

I need to update phoneStatus where the phone number is 2222. When I try to do this, I get an object without the phoneNumber field, while the rest of the fields remain.

I get this look

[
       {phoneNumber: "111111", phoneStatus:  false, defaultPhone: true, _id: 61c4f31d0c7a0a29c238d5c9},
       {phoneStatus:  true, defaultPhone: true, _id: 61c4f31d0c7a0a29cdff4d5c9},
    ],

Here is an example request

await UserModel.findOneAndUpdate({
  phoneNumbers: { $elemMatch: { phoneNumber: "2222"} },
  }, {$set: { phoneNumbers: { phoneStatus:  true}
});

Tried to use updateOne, tried without $set, still deletes the phoneNumber field.

Help to make the right request.