How to change date format when querying QUERY in Google Sheet?

Question

Google Sheets

The task is to display a column with the name of the month in Google sheets. Simple formatting is not suitable, because the lines are added through a google form. In this case, the set format flies / overwrites. For the same reason, you cannot immediately write formulas in cells. I found a solution for displaying the date through a QUERY query
=QUERY(A:J;"select B";1), where column B is the date of the format "03/10/2021" and the title in the first line
. As a result, you need to get the date of the "MMM" format, i.e. "mar."
I know that you can use the format function in the request, but according to the available examples and descriptions, I still don’t understand how to use it.