Are there psychologists among you?

Question

The problem is this:

whatever I do, I find it the most disgusting shit, although I am often told the opposite. I really don't know what to do with this anymore.

share advice or maybe some guidelines

Answer 1

Can you stop doing shit?

Answer 2

Do something like this

Answer 3

Oleg takes on everything boldly
Turning everything into shit
When he takes on shit
Just spends less energy

Answer 4

In my opinion, you have stagnation, a decline in self-esteem. It is difficult to single out the reason, because not enough information.
A good way to get rid of this is prolonged strong emotions. Emotions can be either good or bad. In short, try to do something extraordinary, something that you have always been afraid or embarrassed to do.

Answer 5

Better go to an ordinary psychologist, here you won’t get off with “advice”.
Several sessions may be required.
In short - perhaps it was just that your ancestors from childhood condemned everything that you wanted to do. But it’s better not to even read anything about it, so as not to start adjusting reality to read beliefs.

Answer 6

One dude wrote in the last century: now try to think that everything you do is brilliant things.
And when you get from the state of “everything is shit” to the state of “everything is a genius”, it remains to understand that there is no difference between them.

Answer 7

Dude, that's good! You know Yin, now learn Yang - look for mistakes and correct them one by one.

Answer 8

, there are two points:
First: when everyone around is realized and so cool, all that remains for us is to dissociate ourselves from the crowd, calling ourselves UG.
second point: idealism. I want to break away from the ordinary and come up with something that no one could realize and come up with before you.
In both cases, in my opinion, there are common roots: most likely, from the side of relatives in childhood, there was pressure and instilled uncertainty in life

Answer 9

Question: why are you doing shit?)
Listen to others without help, they still won’t tell the truth, this is the effect of an avatar in contact: against the background of a carpet with the inscription VIP and +100500 comments under it “oh what a cool avatar”.

Answer 10

1. Get enough sleep.
2. Do something you don't know how to do at all. Juggle, draw, play the pipe, speak tongue twisters, etc. It is important here that the case does not have any increased significance for you. If you have long and strongly wanted to learn how to play the guitar or skate, do not try. You can again slide into something that does not work nifiga. And it's good if the case itself is not too complicated. It is necessary to position it as recreation / entertainment and do as much as your free time allows (but without fanaticism).

Answer 11

I don't know how impressive your results are, but I don't think they are perfect. It is interesting to know whose opinion you hear, whose opinion you would like to hear and whose opinion you are afraid to hear. It is not at all necessary that they tell you the truth (that your work is good, maybe to support you), and if they think so, then it is not a fact that their level of competence is high enough to criticize and express certain advice that you could listen to and raise your skills.
The point is to find an environment of professionals, if you are in it, find recognized and best.
Once you become the best and recognized, passing on knowledge is one of the best ways to increase your self-esteem.